Posting Crime Online

For those who think I have an issue with kids now posting their numerous pranks and petty crimes on YouTube, I really don't. I have an issue with kids committing these crimes in the first place. What gets me laughing is the fact that kids are dumb enough to believe that they can post this stuff online to the masses and think no one will notice. As if the phrase "World Wide Web" doesn't seem to click somehow...

As a decent and respectable person, I do have some common sense. For example, I do run through my comments with immaculate detail, being wary not to irritate the wrong people. And by wrong people, I mean DUMB PEOPLE. I'm kidding, of course, but not really. But mostly I am...not kidding. If people don't like what I'm writing, they don't need to read it. Now if you were forced to read it, I would feel sorry and pray your death would be as painless and quick as possible.

But back to my point, which is parents should be thanking their lucky stars their kids are documenting their crimes online and posting them online for many potential cyber-witnesses. If these kids were smarter, they wouldn't even have evidence to begin with. How do you explain your innoncence when it's obvious you did something illegal that was watched by 20,000 people online? Imagine the response if those kids involved in the Columbine shooting were posting their whacked-out manifesto online.

I suppose we all should be thankful our education system has gone to crap. A smarter criminal would know better.

The following was the view and opinion of the author and does not reflect the views or opinions of the host of this blog. And he cannot post any crime he has committed due to the fact he does not have a video camera. Boo hoo hoo.

Life During Wartime, Part II

A major issue that comes up is the idea of installing democracy. We are trying to install democracy into a region that up until now has had little to no say in their affairs. While the idea is a noble one, how exactly do we plan on installing democracy in Iraq? Is this going to be like our education system now? Is it going to be the "no democratic citizen left behind" policy? With the dopey kids we got coming out of a underfunded, underresourced, overstressed system, we should talk.

The problem with this is how do we set an example for the Iraq people, when our president has a lower opinion by the American people than that kid with the "feather-duster" hairstyle on American Idol? Some people still question the result of the 2000 election that got G.W. into office. Some naysayers would suggest he was elected by the people, but these people forget one thing: the electoral college and the supreme court made that call, NOT the American people. The real uptights would offer that Bush did well in leading us through a difficult time after 9/11, and to some degree, they're not wrong. However, look at what has happened since then and start wondering how much of that good faith has been pissed away.

(In case you believe this is some "leftist liberal commie" viewpoint, let me clarify something right now: I don't trust my authority figures. Period. If Kerry, Gore, or Hilary Clinton were in charge, I wouldn't trust them either. And besides, they got their own skeletons I can poke at. But since Bush is in charge, he's the one who gets the business end of this rant. So suck it up, you right wing loonies. I'm kidding, people. But not really.)

Then again, the people seemed to speak up just fine in California some years ago when they wanted to get a new governor. But they got Arnold Schwarzenegger instead. Good job. At least with porn star Mary Carey as governor I could've laughed along with the insanity of it all. Growing up in California for a large amount of my life, it probably was for the best I wasn't in the state when this went down.

Our "democracy" has been upended by people who have more money and assets than any average joe can get their hands on. The guy who gets elected is often the guy who spends more money than their opponent. Our Congresspeople can't get their heads out of their collective butthole to do anything except complain about each other. Our President's most trusted advisors have more skeletons in their closet than a serial killer does. And no matter what political party you stand on, you are considered "un-American" and "unpatriotic" for just questioning the way things are (and since when did both mean the same thing? Was there a hearing on this that any REAL citizen of this country was invited to?). Is that really the "democracy" we want to leave behind for the Iraq people to use?

To be continued...

The following was the view and opinion of the author and does not reflect the views or opinions of the host of this blog. And if you can’t figure it out yet, this particular post is not the last in this series. Deal with it.

Pointing Your Fingers Without Looking

If there is any certainty in the world, is that someone has to have the finger of blame put on them for someone else's mess. After viewing several hours of news coverage on the recent Virginia Tech shootings, it seems those fingers are starting to wave towards a few candidates: the campus security, for not being able to stop the mad student within the two hours it took to claim 33 lives; the staff, for not noticing the serious mental issues; and the not-so-strict gun laws in Virginia that allowed him to buy the guns used in this horrifying massacre.

Being old enough to remember, I can recall the early finger-pointing of the Columbine High School shooting from 1999:

"It has to be the music that drove those kids to do this."

"It must have been the movies they watched."

"It must have been the video games they were playing."

And throughout all of this, everyone forgot they were teenagers, living under their parent's roof. The roof of their parents, who seemingly did not know those two kids were planning something like this for a long time. They went to high school to learn. The high school that seemed to ignore the warning signs of these two going off. Only after they did what they did were people willing to pay attention. The problem is, a lot of us in soceity looked in the wrong place for our answers to this tragedy.

The truth of Columbine and of the Virginia Tech shootings is simply this: if you're looking for blame, all you need to do is look in the mirror.

Did we as a society want something like this to happen? Of course not. But we did let it happen. We allowed ourselves to lose sight of an obvious problem in order to sleep well at night. Of course nothing's wrong, because if it was, we would have to deal with it. Why can't someone deal with the powder kegs walking among us instead of me? Problems require responsibility on all sides of the coin. Just because the unstable are about to snap doesn't mean we should ignore them so they can play out their insane fantasies of revenge with us as the bad guys waiting to be pumped full of lead.

But if we did stop to examine this problem with the unstable people among us, what do you think that would say about us as people? We want to believe we care for others, that we have compassion for those less fortunate. But that is not a view shared by everyone. We scrape up as much as we can while we can, because we have no clue how long we will be around to enjoy it. There's no time to worry about everyone else when you gotta get yours. When something like this happens, there has to be that moment where you are reminded that you are human, you are part of a society, and as part of a society, you screwed up. It's not the music, the movies, the internet that drove the boys of Columbine and the student at Virginia Tech to shoot their fellow classmates: we did that by what we did or didn't do to them.

We didn't talk to them at that crucial moment before they started to think their distorted plans for revenge. We didn't say what they were thinking was wrong. We didn't stop bullying them in class. We didn't stop looking them down. We didn't pay attention to what was going on. We didn't step in hard enough. We didn't see. We didn't want to see. We didn't want to see for fear of what we would see about ourselves.

We did let them run free to think their twisted thoughts. We did want to believe that everything would be okay, even though we avoided confronting the horrible truth. We did want to do the right thing, but were afraid to do so. We did want to help, but were unsure as to how. We did want to do soemthing, but just did not care. Now, we have to point our fingers at something else in order to relieve ourselves of the burden of failing to do the right thing. After all, if we didn't blame something else for a tragedy like this, who would we have left to blame but ourselves as a people? We can't blame the killers for just going crazy, because then we would need to know why they went crazy. We would have to hear the stories of bullying, of pressure, of rejection, of dislocation, of abuse, and realize we are not too far away from being as mad as them. How can we live with that when it would be so much easier to blame someone else and shift our anger, our confusion, our regret onto one thing and hope its punished and rids us of all our angst?

Scapegoating seems to be commonplace in many areas of society. "I don't want to look stupid, so I'll make someone else look stupid." You can't scapegoat something like Virginia Tech or like Columbine. You can't point the finger at an extraneous influence and hope that the pain and agony of regret disappears with it. If you do, you already dishonored and pushed aside the memory of those lost in these tragedies. They deserve better, just like those mentally ill boys did. You need to remember. You must not forget. You need to see the world that's in front of your face, but never really pay attention to. And just as important, you need to give a damn about someone other than yourself. So stop pointing your fingers and do something important to improve your society, or better yet, make yourself better. This kind of loss should not be in vain.

The following was the view and opinion of the author and does not reflect the views and opinions of the host of this blog. And if you can’t figure it out yet, wake up, people. Wake the f**k up.

Truths that Cannot be Accepted

As a people, we all create a sembelance of how things are and the way life should be. Individually, we create our own truths. These are truths that are often based in paranoia and outright stupidity. In order to help clear up the truth and the lies, here's a list of truths that some of us refuse to accept:

--Muslim extremists, not the government, were responsible for 9/11:
Sorry Charlie Sheen, but it is true. And as for you Rosie O'Donnell, may I recommend spending a lot more time hanging upside down in that "vampire bat machine" thing you got. I always like how these wackos suggest Bush had enough of a brain to set the biggest terrorist attack in our nation's history in motion, but can't explain why he couldn't find WMDs in Iraq. Bush is not a master criminal like Kaiser Soze. He's more like the Foghorn Leghorn of master criminals. Speaking of WMDs...

--There are no WMDs in Iraq:
Donald Rumsfeld, I envy you. Even after such insurmountable evidence to the contrary, you still say there were WMDs there. I don't envy you for your ignorance. I envy you because unlike other people, you didn't lose your job and get shipped off to the old folks home for your assertions.

--If your twelve year old wears more makeup than an old lady on Beverly Hills, she better be a
ho:
I believe some kids need makeup to look good. But here's the thing: this applies to ugly kids. And besides, your makeup says volumes about who you are. Goth kids who wear black eyeliner, lipstick, and pasty face makeup tend to be a morose and depressed bunch. Kids who wear heavy amounts of blush and eyeliner might be mistaken for hooker working the street. Sure its to impress the guys in school, but you know who else it impresses? Child molesters.

--Having a kid at thirteen is not "fun":
Your first love is not the end-all, be-all of your love life. Give yourself some time. You have plenty of opportunities to be disappointed. In the meantime, buy a dog or cat. You can actually ignore them and not feed them that much if you're busy. Plus, child neglect is a crime.

--O.J. did kill someone:
That fiasco over his book that explained how he would have killed two innocent people might have netted him some cash, except for one thing: it's not a hypothetical he killed them. It's a fact. Deal with it, naysayers.

The following was the view and opinion of the author and does not reflect the views and opinions of the host of this blog. And if you want the truth, trust me, you can't handle the truth.

Life During Wartime, Part 1

War is not something anyone in their right minds should want. Sometimes it is inevitable and must be done to protect those we love and those who can't fight alone. But war is the last option, and should not be the first one on the list of solutions. The war in Iraq is something I never had a heavy opposition to, but that it wasn't finished a decade earlier was irritating to say the least. It was interesting to hear the senior Bush some years before his son cleaned up the mess and long before 9/11 suggest the reason he wanted to halt the advance back in 1991 was the fear this would turn into my generation's Vietnam. Now it seems like its closer to this generation's Vietnam.

I never disagreed with going to war against Iraq or Afghanistan, but what I've been upset by is the obvious lack of planning and ineptness our administration has had. When I heard optimistic reports early on that we would be able to establish a democratic structure in a matter of months, I knew that wasn't going to be the case. I knew when our leaders said they found weapons of mass destruction and forged their whole reason for the invasion on it, there was that little piece of me that knew what would happen if this blew up in their face. Now, I expect the government to not tell me EVERYTHING under the sun, but the lies aren't holding up for me to just look away and ignore them.

This is not the incident that will tarnish this administration in my humble opinion. What will tarnish Bush's term as president is the handling of things at home, especially during Hurricane Katrina. Living at the southern end of the U.S. and hearing horror stories of what- happened tore me up. But then watching news footage and hearing the many interviews about it then and now enraged me. When our government has a faster reaction to a foreign war than to the worst natural disaster to come our way in many decades, there is a real problem. Accountability and responsibility on many levels was absent, but even worse was our government's response. I don't care about political affiliations here, but about common f**kin' sense. When your leaders appear to not have any, it doesn't speak well for your country.

I have to say that unlike Vietnam, the response to our soldiers on the ground has been generally positive. Maybe because we have learned from the mistakes we made. Our soldiers are people who are put into impossible situations and deal with unbelievable stress every day. Many of the souls sent into Vietnam managed to survive with their bodies, but often not with their minds. If anything has really been learned from our time in Iraq is that its okay to disagree with the leaders, but not with the soldiers in turn. They may be fighting in a war that many don't agree with, but that does not mean they should not be shown respect. They don't ask for pity, but they damn well deserve the respect.

To be continued...

The following was the view and opinion of the author and does not reflect the views or opinions of the host of this blog. And if you can’t figure it out yet, this particular post is the first of many. You were warned in advance.

Who Doesn’t Like Watching Trainwrecks?

Anyone who suggests they don’t rubberneck at an accident is lying to you. And if they aren’t lying, then their powers of observation are faulty. People are curious to see horrible things at accident sites. Ultimately, these poor souls could be us, or have been us. It’s a grim reminder that all things are fleeting and can be snatched away from us at any time. That is the reason celebrity breakdowns are interesting. When you have lots of money and still can’t get your act together, it only proves the old adage, “money can’t buy you happiness.”

There is a perverse feeling to all of this, a sick enjoyment of watching someone hit the wall (especially if they have more money than you and your entire family combined). Why do we continually talk about girls like Britney Spears hitting the wall and cracking under it all? Because we all silently get off on it is why! We publicize the bad more than the good. When a semi-talented pop girl crashes and burns gets more publicity than dudes who may be on the verge of treating deadly cancers that affect us all, its truly sad. We seem to be in a place where failures are rewarded with more attention and praise than successes. It’s one thing to fail and do it fighting to the last breath, its another to lose and not have done anything about it in the first place.

But, we all watch the disasters, wait for the graphic footage to come on, shown in high definition 1080i on huge plasma screen TVs. The picture is so clear you can see the carnage just like if you were there. Rubbernecking on highways just doesn’t seem the same when you can rubberneck with images so vivid you can taste the pain on someone’s face.

It’s best to remember that in the midst of the mayhem, there is loss. There is sadness. There is a need for reason. There is anger. And from us, there should be compassion. That could be us.

The following was the view and opinion of the author and does not reflect the views and opinions of the host of this blog. And if it’s not obvious yet, you should be angry.

What Really Needs to Be Banned

After a while, you tend to get sick of hearing what people really think is the problem with society. I know I do. Dear Lord, I do! However, I tend to understand the need to place society’s faults on one thing rather than on society as a whole (“Hey, the parent’s didn’t screw up when their kids went on a killing spree, it was ‘Grand Theft Auto: San Andreas’ that did it! Blame them!”). But, I think the problem is in the little things we take for granted, such as civil liberties and proper parenting. But, to follow the foaming need of the mob to put a finger on the problem, I have some ideas on what needs to banned RIGHT NOW:

--The combination of two names into one (e.g., “Brangelina”): This stupid little thing needs to stop. NOW. This is borderline brain damaged behavior. I’m halfway tempted to have a law passed that will make it legal to stone the dude who invented this. Not to death, but enough so they can still call the paramedics.

--The “super wall” across the border. Anyone with half a mind and a memory of “Escape from New York” can tell you that huge walls can only work when you have a large water mass between them and land. And even then, you’ll need helicopters. With cruise missiles. Speaking about dumb immigration ideas…

--The rounding up of illegals to be transported back to their home country. What a brilliant idea, guys. Hey, you know what else? It would have worked….a century and a half ago! With 5,000 people, that might have worked. But with 5 million, it’s downright insane. Are the gears of politics that slow when it comes to common sense? Think on that. Don’t worry, I’ll wait.

--What my favorite celebrity is shopping for. Do I need to know this? Will it change my life to find out my favorite star eats the same tortilla chips I do? While I’m at it, am I that desperate for entertainment that I need to know if they poop the same way I do? Do they wear diapers? Do they do it into a bag strapped to their calves? And who gives a flying f**k about any of this?

--Remakes of old TV shows into movies. Hopefully this is stopping already, but it needs to stop indefinitely. Mind you, old TV shows made into new TV shows is fine with me. I’m personally waiting for the remake of “My Mother The Car” from the guys who remade “Battlestar Galactica”. It will be a gritty parable about today’s society, seen from a woman whose soul is trapped in the body of a car. It may even win an Emmy.

And to finish this list off:

--Blaming your problems on alcoholism. Calling another dude “sugar tits” is hard to blame on just a couple of beers. Something like that is floating in your brain for a long time, but it just took the beer to let everyone else know you were thinking about “sugar tits”. The same applies to molesting male interns. I may be speaking for myself, but when I’m drunk (which is “solar eclipse” rare), I don’t bring up the Jews or having sex with young boys. And believe me when I tell you, I talk A LOT when I'm drunk. Grow some nuts, people.

The following was the view and opinion of the author and does not reflect the views and opinions of the host of this blog. And if you can’t guess it’s a personal opinion, that’s your problem… Sugar Tits.

Why Dumb Blondes Tick Me Off

Being a single man, I do have dreams of one day having kids of my own. As such, I have to reflect on the role-models I have for them. If I have a son, I would not let this kid out of my sight, only because I know how my childhood was. The fruit doesn’t fall too far from the tree, so extra care needs to be taken with junior. If it’s a daughter, I would be freaking out to no end.

Look at the role models young girls have now and you would pee your pants in horror and have your little girl locked up in a covenant for the rest of her days. Girls like Paris Hilton and Britney Spears are role models? What is going on here? We get to hear about the exposed privates, drunken stupors, borderline psychotic behavior, and rehab visits shorter than trips to the supermarket and not feel like doing a mental exam on these girls with a lead pipe to the forehead? When absentee fathers and snobby ex-boyfriends seem like better bets as human beings, you know something is wrong.

Some have gone as far as to call them “whores”, which is far from being true. Whores give it out for money. I get the feeling they do it for free. “Dumb” is harsher.

I don’t need to worry about my kid wearing a thong sticking out of her pants as she goes to grade school. I don’t want to hear about my kid spending more time on her cell phone than on her education. I don’t need to hear that her friends advertise their goods with see-through clothes. It’s one thing to advertise what you got ladies, but like any good teaser for a movie, you should not see all of the good parts BEFORE the ticket is bought.

The title of this piece might suggest I have an issue against all blondes, but this is far from true. Unfortunately, many guys like me know this to be a myth. Most blondes I know tend to be articulate, intelligent, and often fascinating individuals. Unfortunately, with these girls running around, that myth is becoming reality. What’s next?

Hearing about Anna Nicole Smith’s horrifying demise doesn’t give me a bright outlook for the future. Remember the old adage, “Those who forget history are condemned to repeat it”? I have the bad feeling that these party girls may not have even have touched the history books to know that one.

The following was the view and opinion of the author and does not reflect the views and opinions of the host of this blog. And if you can’t guess it’s a personal opinion, you need to get your head examined. Possibly with a lead pipe.

An Introduction

Okay, here’s the deal: I have opinions about a great many things. However, with my other blogs (rsmon77.blogspot.com and avstimuli.blogspot.com) you'd be hard pressed to find any deep prying. And as the blogosphere (weird name I know, but thank God I didn’t invent it) is where people can talk smack and take criticism about their opinions, I think it’s time I put my two cents of smack in. So, for the five of you (or to be realistic, two of you) who stumble upon this blog hoping for grand moments of revelation and earth-changing information, well, keep hoping I eventually do that. If I do, I can assure you it will be by accident and with little self-realization. Obviously these opinions are mine and mine alone, and as such, may be dripping with sarcasm and exaggeration. They do not represent the opinions of the hosts of this blog (to best of my knowledge, so if you are reading this, please don’t write to confirm it). I enjoy feedback as much as the next guy (which in this current climate, means not at all), but please be polite. Trust me, if you the reader feel that these opinions are personal attacks against you and your character, it is not. If it was personal, I would be polite enough to attach your name to my insults directly. So if you are Paris Hilton and I say the words “dumb whore”, rest easy because unless I specifically write, “Paris Hilton is a dumb whore”, it really doesn’t refer to you. Really.

If you don’t like pointed opinions and venomous attacks against society… boy, you came to the wrong place. You were warned. Here comes the pain.